Among the many fun and exciting times that preceded the actual wedding are the pre-wedding celebrations such as the engagement party, bridal showers, attendants' parties and even the bridesmaids' luncheon. Most friends and family enjoy the opportunity to host events that draw the bridal couple and members of the wedding party together with other friends, relatives and those who share in the joyous times.

While keeping up a whirl of pre-wedding parties and showers can be fun, it may also become hectic. Thus it may become necessary to limit the number of scheduled functions to attend, especially if drop-in well-wishers are to be expected. Celebrate as many parties and showers as you have time and energy to, but don't overbook yourself.

Traditionally the rehearsal dinner is hosted by either the groom or the groom's family. It can be held at any time from one night before the wedding to three or four days before. However, it is best to keep  the events within a few days from each other as many guests will travel from out of town.

If the wedding is to be held in a location unfamiliar to the groom, it may be helpful to scout around for possible sites. Often it is less of a hassle to hold the rehearsal near the site where the wedding will take place.

When planning the reception, keep in mind that the food to be served at the rehearsal should differ as much as possible from the reception menu. In order to avoid any conflicts or entree repeats, have caterers for each event discuss their respective menus beforehand. To simplify the problem have the same caterer handle both events.